Thanks for friending me a month ago. Your situation sounds quite familiar to me. While I'm not married with kids (yet) I have a female partner who likes to have a gay mate. I hope your wife is just as accepting. I made a post a couple of weeks back that it seems a lot of marriages go south because of repressed sexuality that eventually comes out.

So I guess welcome to each other's worlds and I hope to get to know you more through LJ. *hugs*