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I get so few comments I am not sure if anyone even reads what I post anymore.

One of my IRL friends just cut back on his list of LJ Friends using the following criteria....

I have deleted everyone who hasn't replied to my last three entries, I have not talked to on AIM/YIM in the last seven days, or I have not talked to on the phone or seen in person in the last month.

But I wasn't really sure that was a decent criteria for me to use. I needed something a bit more robust so...

I have deleted everyone from my friends list who did not reply on every entry, has not talked with my via IM, that I haven't met, that I haven't talked to on the phone, or have met in person at any point in time.

Yes, basically I have deleted everyone from my LJ friends list as a few hundred was a bit much. If for some reason, you wish to be added back on to my friends list, please reply.

Note: This is not a way for me to change my LJ into "Friends Only" and then say "Oh, yeah, I post all the time but I guess you are not on my friends list" :-)  I will still post.

Jo Vjtod

May. 30th, 2007 01:42 am
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I haven't been reading LJ... because it just makes a moger too emo.

Now what sucks is, I have to make an emo statement right now...

Sorry about the lack of an LJ-CUT on my last huge (altho' worksafe) image post.

The guy only made it 11:40 instead of 24 hours. 

Thanks to [personal profile] kovufor the nice birthday shoutout last week... (yeah my b-day was 5/23)

The Pyger and 2 of the squids return late Wednesday.  Been kinda interesting having the place all to my self since Friday afternoon.

I was going to clean up the place, but it looks more like I just pushed around some papers. 

And, being a RAnDoMoose... Ferris Bueller's Day Off is playing in Sacramento Thursday night @ 10pm WooHoo!

Hoofy Belated B-Day to [profile] polarbear_raq(cake?) 

Thanks for the omlette [profile] sailor_atma=D

Thanks for the b-day msg [profile] redhaski.

I got a bluetooth headset from Pyger and teh Squids for teh one that I stepped on (buh).  I also got a little briefcase business card holder from my mom.  Went out to dinner on my b-day to On The Border (since I had a coupon) with teh family and Raq.

I wish I had more time to visit... but I also hoof been running errands.

Things are moving forward... I hope what I want is there at the end of the journey.

"If you don't draw strength from the person, you don't love them, you just like them." - credited to Taleeno via Andy.
radmoose: (Default)
OK... so it's my birthday and I am in a really weird mood. So this "friends list" meme is going around... and being a moger... I decide to flip it.... it isn't me posting about my list, it is YOU posting about my list =)

"Take a look at my friends list, then list up to ten things you want to say to ten different LJ friends on my list. DO NOT state who these people are. DO NOT confirm nor deny any "comment speculation.

Watch, gentle reader, as we turn it into a weapon against our friends lists!

This meme doesn't do much to reveal the author's attitude towards individuals on the friends list. What it does do, however, is reveal the reader's attitude towards themselves. So what does your friends list think of themselves?"

"Reading the responses will tell you exactly what people think of themselves."



radmoose: (Default)
Is it OK to be in love with multiple people?

I mean, I love my wife, however, we are really Parents, Best Friends and Roommates.

I also love my kids.. they are Teh Awesomeness =)

We are going to talk about other peoples.

Hi. I am RAD Moose, and I am a moger.

FYI... yeah, I am that not-as-rare-as-you-might-think gay married male.

I love my friends. I care a lot about them.

Sometimes I got to close to friends, and thought that there was something more. But we realized that we are just really good friends.

The problem is that I am thinking too much..... yeah...go moger!

I love someone very much. They mean a lot to me... probably more than they will ever realize.

I also care about someone else very much. They also mean a lot to me.... definately more than they realize.

One of them is a friend, and for various reasons we are not together. But we are still friends. =)

The other is also a friend and the problem that I have is that based upon how I have been involved with society, you are not supposed to be in love with two people at the same time. So I end up thinking, I still love this guy, yet I need to move on, and I also really care about and love this other guy...and think the feeling could be mutual... but I haven't told him since I am dealing with this 2 person issue (as well as trying to avoid rejection.... even when I thought everything was right, I was rejected.... mogers don't like rejection.)

Part of me wants to walk right up and tell him how I feel.... another part of me wants to just stay quiet and hope it passes so that I will not possibly push a friend away.

Of course, there is the other problem of other friends having issues with me being close to my friend.

Ah, the complicated life of a moger.

Oh.. to complicate it even more, I have told this friend that we could never date as we are too incompatable or don't have enough in common (which we both "agreed" on.) [Random note: I also told my wife on our first date that I would never marry her.]

I don't know if we could spend the rest of our lives together... but honestly, I would like to spend a lot more time with him now and in the future.

Forget about the issues (wife & kids, etc.) that come with a moger... focus on the following question.

Are you just supposed to lose all feelings for someone you love if you also love someone else?

Argh! My brain hurts... time for sleeps.

*mogerhugs*

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